The Reid Connection is presenting the 4th & final piece to the success formula revealed to us, that we submit to you in hopes you will apply it as you move towards success. Week 4
Clarity is a topic that has many layers for defining it’s meaning in our lives. The question is how do we get to a place of clarity?
There were times when I questioned why things were happening or not happening in my life. My disappointment with what I was having or experiencing led me to ask for more understanding, and to declare what I was believing / thinking or doing to make things better for myself. What I discovered from this is I had two ideas of thought. There was a conscious thought and an unconscious thought within. This is what is called wavering. James 1:6-8 tells us a wavering man shall not receive anything. Two thoughts going on within is considered being double minded, meaning you are tossed from one idea, conscious thought and another, unconscious thought, which is considered to be unstable.
To have success in a certain area of life or in a certain way requires we become very definitive.
Vacillating ideas: Having faith and unbelief at the same time!
Thinking that money is needed, but it is evil. Money is wanted but it gets in the way of us loving God or family or community. Money is useful but it will change us into someone not likable.
Wanting to go to school but thinking you’re too old to reinvent yourself. Becoming a sales person for the big earnings you know are being made, while thinking you don’t have what it takes to sell. Wanting more but thinking you’ve done too much to deserve something good to happen for you. Wanting more but thinking you cant make changes. How bout, you should be earning more, but not willing to seek or ask for more.
These vacillating ideas of thought are working in a way that creates a barrier to the success wished for.
You must definitively decide:
what you will and wont do
what you do like and do not like
What gives you joy and what does not
WHAT IS CLARITY?
Clarity is your awareness of your barriers then moving past the barriers. The self help gurus all agree you must focus on your “WHY” for your desires to be manifested], creating clarity. I’ve heard, where focus goes, energy flows.
Clarity allows for choices that are in alignment with who you are. It includes understanding your purpose or calling so much so that everything you do is to fulfill it. When you are moving in clarity you are on purpose, doing things with purpose, not overly focused on the challenges and whatever difficulties. Clarity makes us commit or not commit, it allows for our creativity and will keep us in the processes we must go through. Clarity puts us on the path best for success, confirming we stay the course until our goal is manifested. Being clear keeps your faith in action, being clear pushes you forward despite any fears.
HOW IS CLARITY ACHIEVED?
This kind goes out with prayer & fasting. Clarity needs to be sought.
My additional suggestion is meditation with prayer. Meditation has advanced my awareness, promoted humility, increased gratitude, and YES clarified my next step. All of this prompted a more faith filled prayer about my desires and surrender to my greater good.
Now, instead of prayer about a bunch of WHYS & WHY FOR, I made specific request with excitement and trust.
STEPS TO CLARITY
To become clear for success; I propose setting aside time to sit still, do meditation and then pray.
Lets get clear, lets be on purpose about things that really matter to us. Let’s get on with the people that are of divine connection for us. This is clarity that leads to a life fulfilled, a life complete, and success.
I’m praying for this list, the formula for success in my life and I’m praying for this list for your life: Healing – Deliverance – Love – Clarity. If you are inspired to pray for me, pray this success formula list.
It is my accepted belief that by Divine revelation, this is what will guarantee success that will surprise you.
The Reid Connection is presenting the 3rd piece to the success formula revealed to us, that we submit to you in hopes you will apply it as you move towards success. Week 3
Most people can think back on a moment when you get something desired and look for a person you have a love connection with, to enjoy the moment and that person is not there. It is at that moment when the significance of love is clear.
When we come face to face with the absence of love for some reason, we get
more clear about the importance for love.
Showing up or not showing up for someone who really needs you in a crisis enforces the value love has.
Love is a requirement for real success. Without love most everything will be only a momentary joy. Love begets love, just as hate begets hate. We tend to look for love in all the wrong places because our conscious and emotions do crave love, so we go about reaching for it on a sub conscious level, sending signals and signs with our body language and conversation to attract what we are begging others to give to us. We seek and search for love with our style, behavior, toys, and trinkets. We go about being seductive or suave to elicit and entice people and things for our possession. Love within our being protects us, it sets boundaries, and it will overflow. Love starts with ourselves, then it extends. Love for ourselves helps us to maintain our health, promotes our self-care from doing too much that causes neglect to ourselves, love connects us with others who will reflect our love for ourselves. We can mirror love to all others no matter what their status and circumstance because love flows through us.
This is a good time to promote reading 1 Cor 13, where the definition of love is more defined.
Make a list of what love is / is not and for each character of love rate where you are from 1 to 10, 10 meaing doing well, 1 meaning doing poorly.
Love should be the controlling factor for our behaviors, tolerance, patience, and support. We should begin and end everything with an attitude of love. Having and feeling love will without a doubt assure success for each of us. Having all we desire, reaching our achievements, and living in luxury means nothing without loving yourself well, as well as having a spouse, parent, child, or sibling to share with.
Pray to be more loving and for the power of love to be at work within you. I want to emphasize that we all must learn what live does to recognize it’s force and affects.
I stand firmly in concluding success can not be materilized without love.
We come back as promised to share our success formula. This is a formula that employs a prayer strategy.
I can admit that my dreams were often deep within a vault unlikely to see the light of day. Because my dreams had too many questions attached like, how or really or the hardest question, what would be required of me. The reality is it would require a changed me, new and improved.
Spirit knows what it would actually take and leads us into the wilderness for deliverance.
We all have ideas in our minds about what is real and true. We have ideas that make us believe how life is supposed to be for us. There are ideas in us that we are not even aware of, these ideas are working within us creating the dynamics that frame our lives.
We have ideas inside that tell us where you are to live, the type of mate you can and will have, ideas on your work or career path.
For most of us these ideas are limiting, we have a limit on what is possible for us as individuals. We often think in terms of having this or that, instead of having both or all.
It’s funny how shooting for the stars is very far fetched and out of sight.
We must pray for deliverance of these subconscious limitations. We can be delivered from our limiting beliefs. The challenges we need will come to us that will help us become aware of the limits we have within. Necessities become elusive causing new and necessary determinations to be concluded. Life will demand your attention to something that really matters and shifts you into deciding something different, something you never thought or considered you’d decide to do or not to do. This is a way that deliverance works for us. Deliverance opens way to new desires, ideas and attitudes.
Deliverance will cause us to let go or at least it will direct your attention to your needing to let go of something, someone or someway. The wished-for career or mate or residence becomes a thing of the past or it loses its lustra. Pray to be delivered from ideas of limitations to reach meaningful success.
To see success in any area of life, granted success is more than mediocre, mundane and tolerable, we should be willing to be a dreamer and risk taker.
To be a dreamer and risk taker deliverance from limitations, which includes anxiety, doubting and confusion.
I’m claiming my deliverance while I move to success today.
We at The Reid Connection have a success formula revealed to us, that we submit to you in hopes you will apply it as you move towards success. We invite you to follow us over the next 4 weeks as we share our success formula.
The world has programmed us to think big and to reach for great achievements to obtain success. Success is certainly the results of our thinking and actions that allows for wonderful valuables, toys, and trinkets.
I would like to suggest however, that we look at our internal thoughts and feelings, focusing on what we really think about ourselves, others and the state of the union, and focusing on what we really feel about the same. Seeing clearly where we really are internally is a major way to achieve success.
Let’s begin by looking within our internal first as we begin our path to success, lets consider success is a result of a good attitude, bold decisions, and our feeling good about who we are and what we want.
What if the world promoted and influenced us to believe that to be successful means a sense of wholeness and wellness. Where people are considered successful based on their confidence and ability to show authenticity with appreciation? And be judged successful secondly based on bigger bank accounts, gaining millionaire status, the career path, driving the car we love, and having a home to brag about? These are all wonderful things that I personally desire too.
Now, as I step over the line to cross into the senior part of my life, which is only a number given to us, to mean senior, but it is also a time when things in life become clearer and we have understanding about how life functions and what brings about a better functioning life.
Starting with the process of HEALING:
Increased income and more money as opposed to wealth and riches, which are different in definition dont always mean you are successful. More money does not necessarily mean wealth or success. I have learned that more money can mean more problems and more debt due to the way we manage money, which may come out of a mindset of lack, not enough or just enough. A mindset of insecurity, fear, and inadequacy, or a mindset of competition, neediness,and validation. Let’s do mindset checks regularly.⚖
We will chase wealth and riches until we can develop a mind to master the management of finances from a healthy soul.
We must pray for healing. Healing cures us of the ills that keep us wishing for things to make us feel better and feel good internally. Healing is to feel better rather then sick. We’re no longer sick and feeling bad when we’re healed. It is an illusion that money gives happiness and confidence. Money does not give us internal well being. Money without healing can lead to addictions, abuse, and misbehavior.
When you are sick with health issues, you need healing. When you are sick with heart break, you want healing, when you know you’re not feeling good, you seek healing. So, let’s look to be healed and feel good. Take time to focus on how you’re feeling daily, to discover what will allow you to feel good. Thats when success is experienced.
This formula was given to me by my pastor a few years ago and I’ve held on to it ever since. I live by it and it is something that has blessed me and I want to share it with the world. There are a few more steps but for now these steps are the steps we need to tear down strongholds and break yokes .