I’d like to add. We all struggle with sinfulness, secretly and openly. God is the answer to our life struggle, confusion and difficulty. We’ve decided to be our own counselor or have allowed the demoralized standards of the world determine who we are and what we do. It’s sad and I feel sad for “Bruce”. Jesus is the greatest counselor AND redeemer, why don’t we try Him by acknowledging Him in all our way and no leaning on our own understanding and allow Him to direct our path. Finally, I’d like to say His ways are not our ways but His ways are perfect!